Thoughts on Labels
"You're labeling me!" is a common enough lament, especially for my younger patients, when I propose a diagnosis of Bipolar/ Schizophrenia/ Asperger/ Personality Disorder, etc. My reply goes something like this:
Any diagnosis is a "working hypothesis," or a name for what ails you. Think of it as a suit of clothes we try on for size. Even if it "fits" now it may not fit forever, as you grow and your personal "weather" and body shape changes. Your diagnosis or "label" is not who you are, but it is where you are in this moment.